A happy ending.
When i googled Happy ending, this was the first picture shown..yup.sure is happy endings only happen in movies.Because in real life, happy ending is so hard to find. This entry will show emotions and my view on love n relationships.
When u thought that u already have a happy ending because u finally get the guy that u like, well think again because its just the beginning. There will be a long long road after that and nothing will ever be the same again. All the feelings, emotions and tears that being put into the relationship will eventually comes together as u grow older and become a precious memory which not only u kept in a special box, but heart too.The memory no one can ever take away from u. Even after a break-up (if there is ever one), the road continues..no matter how moved on u think u are, a part of u are still there in that road a little bit. U try to live with it, but it always gets around, re-appear..then u start to think, what is wrong with ur heart? Why can't it just let things go..
And for that, u r lucky if there is someone who hold on tight on u. Someone who loves you very much and believe in you every time you're struggling with your own feelings. In a relationship, we need to sometimes remind ourselves n our love one that u love each other despite all the tensions n problems arising in between. Don't give up easily when there's a fight. Don't go find another just to feel better, because u will make things worst, believe me..u will. What u gotta do is work it out..talk from your heart to heart his/hers, try to solve the problem and u'll eventually see, the sparkles of love is still there. Remember why you choose to be with that someone in the first place.
I personally admit that when it comes to dealing with an EX is pretty much complicated. Especially when the last relationship ended because you just have to let him/her go, without any anger or bad feelings for each other. When this situation happens, it is hard to live with because u won't be able to move on fast because the feeling still lingers. Maybe the other side move on faster than u r n dats when it will hurt the most..just to see him/her moving on with their lives, happier than ever and u just be able to watch them from a faraway distance. It will take a LOT of time, effort, self-motivations and of course tears..if the tears u cry can be converted into rain, it'll be a really heavy, continous rainy days..since it had been pouring for years. This sort of things may confuse ur feeling..frequently..every time u heard 'the songs', go to 'the places' or even when it rains..u'll get really confused, wad actually is ur heart going for..is it still screams for memories..but the present n future is more promising..sometimes u can hear whispers in ur ears saying that u still want ur memories back, but then reality give u a loud n bold ring..that d past is the past, memories are memories, don't ruin them b'coz that is the only joy u got left to remember about n to be kept forever in ur heart, despite how painful they are..just try to quit chasing the impossible.
Ted Mosby said "When 2 Exes decided to be casual, there's always someone will get hurt"
Don't hurt anyone please..not even yourself.
When your heart is diverted from the right path, luckily there'll always be someone to put it right back on track. He/she will remind you that they are ur future..n a promising one.
Love, u said thank you because i inspired u to change to be a better person. Yes u did..u had improved a lot since day 1 when i first knew you. But...i didn't do much or perhaps i din't do anything to make u change..U change on ur own determination..and that's how i know how much your love is for me..i love you for you're the only one who can love me this way, who can stand with all my flaws..and who can make me feel special, even though i know i'm not dat much of a special person. For u are my conscience, my clown...my man.
I love u.
And for that, u r lucky if there is someone who hold on tight on u. Someone who loves you very much and believe in you every time you're struggling with your own feelings. In a relationship, we need to sometimes remind ourselves n our love one that u love each other despite all the tensions n problems arising in between. Don't give up easily when there's a fight. Don't go find another just to feel better, because u will make things worst, believe me..u will. What u gotta do is work it out..talk from your heart to heart his/hers, try to solve the problem and u'll eventually see, the sparkles of love is still there. Remember why you choose to be with that someone in the first place.
I personally admit that when it comes to dealing with an EX is pretty much complicated. Especially when the last relationship ended because you just have to let him/her go, without any anger or bad feelings for each other. When this situation happens, it is hard to live with because u won't be able to move on fast because the feeling still lingers. Maybe the other side move on faster than u r n dats when it will hurt the most..just to see him/her moving on with their lives, happier than ever and u just be able to watch them from a faraway distance. It will take a LOT of time, effort, self-motivations and of course tears..if the tears u cry can be converted into rain, it'll be a really heavy, continous rainy days..since it had been pouring for years. This sort of things may confuse ur feeling..frequently..every time u heard 'the songs', go to 'the places' or even when it rains..u'll get really confused, wad actually is ur heart going for..is it still screams for memories..but the present n future is more promising..sometimes u can hear whispers in ur ears saying that u still want ur memories back, but then reality give u a loud n bold ring..that d past is the past, memories are memories, don't ruin them b'coz that is the only joy u got left to remember about n to be kept forever in ur heart, despite how painful they are..just try to quit chasing the impossible.
Ted Mosby said "When 2 Exes decided to be casual, there's always someone will get hurt"
Don't hurt anyone please..not even yourself.
When your heart is diverted from the right path, luckily there'll always be someone to put it right back on track. He/she will remind you that they are ur future..n a promising one.
Love, u said thank you because i inspired u to change to be a better person. Yes u did..u had improved a lot since day 1 when i first knew you. But...i didn't do much or perhaps i din't do anything to make u change..U change on ur own determination..and that's how i know how much your love is for me..i love you for you're the only one who can love me this way, who can stand with all my flaws..and who can make me feel special, even though i know i'm not dat much of a special person. For u are my conscience, my clown...my man.
I love u.
love this post..such a meaningful one...heee~
ReplyDeletethanks dith! really appreciate ur comment..its good to know that there's someone reading this post n like it ^^
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